The School for Good Mothers

The School for Good Mothers

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  • Author:Jessamine Chan
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Summary

In this taut and explosive debut novel, one lapse in judgement lands a young mother in a government reform program where custody of her child hangs in the balance。

Frida Liu is struggling。 She doesn’t have a career worthy of her Chinese immigrant parents’ sacrifices。 She can’t persuade her husband, Gust, to give up his wellness-obsessed younger mistress。 Only with Harriet, their cherubic daughter, does Frida finally attain the perfection expected of her。 Harriet may be all she has, but she is just enough。

Until Frida has a very bad day。

The state has its eyes on mothers like Frida。 The ones who check their phones, letting their children get injured on the playground; who let their children walk home alone。 Because of one moment of poor judgment, a host of government officials will now determine if Frida is a candidate for a Big Brother-like institution that measures the success or failure of a mother’s devotion。

Faced with the possibility of losing Harriet, Frida must prove that a bad mother can be redeemed。 That she can learn to be good。

A searing page-turner that is also a transgressive novel of ideas about the perils of “perfect” upper-middle class parenting; the violence enacted upon women by both the state and, at times, one another; the systems that separate families; and the boundlessness of love, The School for Good Mothers introduces, in Frida, an everywoman for the ages。 Using dark wit to explore the pains and joys of the deepest ties that bind us, Chan has written a modern literary classic。

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Casey

As she reminds herself throughout the book, Frida had "one bad day"—a bad day that consisted of leaving her infant daughter at home, alone, for over two hours。 A neighbor's call to the police leads to the child being removed from Frida's custody, which leads to surveillance cameras being installed in Frida's home, which leads to Frida being enrolled in a "school" that will teach her to be and, ultimately, evaluate whether she is, a fit mother。 This novel had a particularly strong first half。 Whe As she reminds herself throughout the book, Frida had "one bad day"—a bad day that consisted of leaving her infant daughter at home, alone, for over two hours。 A neighbor's call to the police leads to the child being removed from Frida's custody, which leads to surveillance cameras being installed in Frida's home, which leads to Frida being enrolled in a "school" that will teach her to be and, ultimately, evaluate whether she is, a fit mother。 This novel had a particularly strong first half。 Whether you like the latter half depends, I think, on how invested you are in the relationships Frida makes at the school。 Frida is Chinese American and I liked the small asides, though I wish there were more, about how her culture and experience as the daughter of immigrants affected her upbringing, values, and relationship to "mothering。" Frida is a flawed, though ultimately likable, protagonist and I found myself rooting for her even though some of her decisions were。。。questionable。 Overall, I found Frida's journey—not so much her "transformation" as a mother, but rather her discovery of her own capacity to love and be loved—moving。Thank you to Simon & Schuster and NetGalley for a copy of this novel。 。。。more

Brighid

Frida feels like an island in the sea - Alone, adrift, and inadequate。 Her ex-husband Gust has his new wife and Frida feels like she isn’t living up to the sacrifices her immigrant parents made。 Maybe if her baby would just give her a moment to breathe, she could be a better employee。 A better coparent。 A better mother。 When a quick trip to the coffee shop turns into leaving her baby home alone for over an hour, Frida is sentenced to a year the School for Good Mothers。 She and other mothers with Frida feels like an island in the sea - Alone, adrift, and inadequate。 Her ex-husband Gust has his new wife and Frida feels like she isn’t living up to the sacrifices her immigrant parents made。 Maybe if her baby would just give her a moment to breathe, she could be a better employee。 A better coparent。 A better mother。 When a quick trip to the coffee shop turns into leaving her baby home alone for over an hour, Frida is sentenced to a year the School for Good Mothers。 She and other mothers with lapses in judgement - large, small, or singular - must prove that they can meet the standard of motherhood, that they can learn to be good, or risk losing everything。It hurts me to say this, but guys… I did not enjoy this book。 I powered through it because it was extremely generous of the publisher to provide an ARC to us for review, but I think I would have DNF’d otherwise。To me, The School for Good Mothers reads as a discount rack Handmaids Tale, albeit much less violent and horrifying in most ways。 It’s slow-paced, repetitive, and frankly… not that interesting of a premise。 I understand the social commentaries at work (classism, racism, sexism), but I think the author aimed too high。 I think, perhaps, I would have enjoyed this more if I sympathized with Frida, but I simply couldn’t get past the initial problem: She left her baby home alone。 She had other options, and she chose selfishness and irresponsibility。 Within the context of a dystopian novel or not, you’re going to lose custody of your child for that decision, and in that single moment, the author lost me。Unfortunately, The School for Good Mothers missed the mark quite significantly for me。 I’m rooting for Jessamine Chen to dust off this debut and deliver a sophomore novel that her writing evidences she’s capable of, and look forward to keeping an eye out for her next attempt。 Thank you so much to Simon and Schuster/NetGalley for providing an ARC of The School of Good Mothers in exchange for our honest review! 。。。more

Terrie Case

This novel may be far-fetched by including robotic children to help teach parenting skills, but it rings true on so many levels that one must wonder how dystopian it really is。Frieda is sent to a parenting school after leaving her 18-month-old daughter home alone for 2 ½ hours。 It reveals how the child welfare system is so focused on ideals that it forces parents to fail。 For example, forcing a child to play rather than cuddle with a parent so a recording and evaluation can be made is absurd。 If This novel may be far-fetched by including robotic children to help teach parenting skills, but it rings true on so many levels that one must wonder how dystopian it really is。Frieda is sent to a parenting school after leaving her 18-month-old daughter home alone for 2 ½ hours。 It reveals how the child welfare system is so focused on ideals that it forces parents to fail。 For example, forcing a child to play rather than cuddle with a parent so a recording and evaluation can be made is absurd。 If the child misses the parent and is seeking comfort, the parent fails。 The book highlights the failure of the institution to provide guidance on how to parent by someone who has experienced the trials and tribulations of parenting。This book is so good! I could go on for pages singing its praises and pointing out all the issues of a flawed system。 Even though it occurs in a form that is not presently available, it foreshadows what could become a reality。 As a prior government worker who dealt with the child protective community on a regular basis, I recommend this book for entertainment, but the reader should take note of a likely future we could be facing sometime soon。I received an ARC from Simon & Schuster through NetGalley。 This in no way affects my opinion or rating of this book。 I am voluntarily submitting this review and am under no obligation to do so。 。。。more

Book Minded Mag

I am still trying to bring my emotions down after reading The School for Good Mothers。 It is a maddening, frustrating, anger-inducing book that I couldn't stop reading。Frida Liu has had a very bad day。 She leaves her daughter, Harriet, home alone for a couple of hours and is reported to the police。 Because of her "neglect," Frida is sentenced to attend a school for bad parents, a coed facility for both mothers and fathers。 What Frida has to go through is indicative of the Hell mothers are subjec I am still trying to bring my emotions down after reading The School for Good Mothers。 It is a maddening, frustrating, anger-inducing book that I couldn't stop reading。Frida Liu has had a very bad day。 She leaves her daughter, Harriet, home alone for a couple of hours and is reported to the police。 Because of her "neglect," Frida is sentenced to attend a school for bad parents, a coed facility for both mothers and fathers。 What Frida has to go through is indicative of the Hell mothers are subject to in the real world。I am a mother and I can tell you with all honesty that had a judge sentenced me to attend that school, I would have grabbed my kid and left the country。 The hoops these mothers had to jump through, the judgments, feelings of shame and inadequacy and plain abuse is believable。 Mothers, in the real world, are scrutinized for absolutely everything they do。 From their breast-feeding schedules to the amount of time it takes for them to "snap back" to their pre-baby weight is catalogued and quantified by family and strangers alike。 Social media has only made things worse, which is why so many women these days are saying no to having babies。 Many don't want the financial, physical or emotional burden of taking care of a child, while others do not want to bring a baby into a world that is literally on fire。 I think the author did a great job of writing this book from an Asian woman's perspective, one readers are starting to see more of in fiction。 The mothers in the program come from different backgrounds and are sent to the school for pretty much anything。 Some mothers did truly terrible things but others are at the school for "offenses" that were due to lack of child care, or being poor。 I'm glad the author included the differences in the school's programming for the fathers, which is nowhere near as intense or strict as it is for the mothers (shocker)。 This book is going to open up a lot of discussions about parenting in general, discussions that need to be had, especially after seeing how that dynamic has been pushed to the forefront during this ongoing pandemic。 I, for one, cannot wait。Thank you to Netgalley for providing me with an advance copy in exchange for an honest review。 。。。more

Sara K

I really struggled to get into this book。 As a mother of three children, I found it difficult to grasp the idea of this book。 I also struggled to understand the main character, her struggles and her experiences。 Frida had a really bad day, had a lapse in judgement and now finds herself in a government reform program learning how to become a good mother。 Her ex-husband has a younger wife, her parents are disappointed in her career choice and her young daughter is leaving her exhausted。 When she p I really struggled to get into this book。 As a mother of three children, I found it difficult to grasp the idea of this book。 I also struggled to understand the main character, her struggles and her experiences。 Frida had a really bad day, had a lapse in judgement and now finds herself in a government reform program learning how to become a good mother。 Her ex-husband has a younger wife, her parents are disappointed in her career choice and her young daughter is leaving her exhausted。 When she puts her daughter at risk, she finds herself faced with the possibility of losing her。 Can she live up to the standards of the government to be a good mother and get her daughter back? Thank you Netgalley for our advanced reader copies! 。。。more

Kristi

RTC - Waffling between a 3 and 4。 Still thinking about it!

Jasmine Hutchinson

The School for Good Mothers is a futuristic, dystopian novel about a School which teaches ‘bad’ mothers how to be ‘good’。 It is a propelling novel which explores the perils of upper-middle-class parenting。 I have mixed feelings about this book as my judgement overrode my sympathy for the protagonist, Frida。 The book started strong but unfortunately it didn’t live up to the synopsis。 I thoroughly enjoyed the intensity of the first half which was a page-turner and was eager to read more about the The School for Good Mothers is a futuristic, dystopian novel about a School which teaches ‘bad’ mothers how to be ‘good’。 It is a propelling novel which explores the perils of upper-middle-class parenting。 I have mixed feelings about this book as my judgement overrode my sympathy for the protagonist, Frida。 The book started strong but unfortunately it didn’t live up to the synopsis。 I thoroughly enjoyed the intensity of the first half which was a page-turner and was eager to read more about the School。 The premise seemed lost in the second half, repetitive and surprisingly emotionally detached。 I wish it delved more into the lives of the School teachers。 The School for Good Mothers has a lot to unpack and would make a great selection for Book Club! It is a dark, witty dystopian novel which will appeal to fans of The Handmaid’s Tale and 1984。 。。。more

Felicia

This review has been hidden because it contains spoilers。 To view it, click here。 Jenna recommendation

Dalia

My first DNF of the year。 This book was getting me too worked up, so I had to shelve it。 Based on others reviews, it doesn't seem like it would be worth finishing if it's upsetting me this much。 My first DNF of the year。 This book was getting me too worked up, so I had to shelve it。 Based on others reviews, it doesn't seem like it would be worth finishing if it's upsetting me this much。 。。。more

Wrenn

DNF at 16%。 Not the right book for me。

Donna Davis

Big build up and a big disappointment。 Review is in progress。

Sarita Subramaniam

Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC in exchange for an honest review of this book。This book was really good but so hard to read in so many ways。 Frida has a very bad day- she leaves her toddler daughter Harriet unattended for 3 hours and ends up having very severe repercussions for this。 She is sent to a sort of mother reform school where she is "taught" to be a "good mother" This book was disturbing on so many levels。 It was horrifying to think about having your child taken away for a lapse in judg Thanks to NetGalley for the ARC in exchange for an honest review of this book。This book was really good but so hard to read in so many ways。 Frida has a very bad day- she leaves her toddler daughter Harriet unattended for 3 hours and ends up having very severe repercussions for this。 She is sent to a sort of mother reform school where she is "taught" to be a "good mother" This book was disturbing on so many levels。 It was horrifying to think about having your child taken away for a lapse in judgment。 However, I did feel that Frida's transgression was more than just taking your eye off your child for a second。 It was referred to as a bad day, mistake and that did bother me a lot。 It was definitely more than that。 However, I felt that the book was so spot on in its descriptions of sheer exhaustion and monotony in caring for young children -especially as single mother。 I really really disliked her ex-husband Gust。 The methods of educating women to be a good mother were horrifying。 I think the author had some real insight into the plights of single mothers and the difficulties with ethnic minorities。 I also remembered the isolation and self doubt you experience as a new parent without a village of friends or family to support you。 The book really creeped me out at times and I had to put it down because it upset me so much。 That being said it is a solid book - kept me engaged and motivated to keep going with the story。 It got a bit slow and repetitive in the middle but I wanted to know how everything was going to turn out。 Would give this 3。75 stars。 A really good debut。 。。。more

Briel

Complex and thought provoking, The School for Good Mothers delivers as a dystopian novel; enhancing reality just enough to make the environment terrifyingly believable。 The novel intensifies our current call out culture and scrutiny toward mothers and creates a world where mothers are quickly “reported” for maternal infractions and sentenced to a year at a prison-like school where they learn how to be better mothers by practicing parenting drills in real life simulations。 Creepy, right?The novel Complex and thought provoking, The School for Good Mothers delivers as a dystopian novel; enhancing reality just enough to make the environment terrifyingly believable。 The novel intensifies our current call out culture and scrutiny toward mothers and creates a world where mothers are quickly “reported” for maternal infractions and sentenced to a year at a prison-like school where they learn how to be better mothers by practicing parenting drills in real life simulations。 Creepy, right?The novel was very good, but it had the potential to be fantastic。 I think it was in desperate need of some tighter editing, as the author seemed to introduce too many social commentaries on motherhood without specifically drilling down on any one of them enough to be particularly potent。 For example, if the infractions of the mothers at the school had all been relatively harmless, the novel could have been a powerful commentary on the extreme criticism of mothers。 Instead, some of the mothers committed legitimate, harmful crimes, thereby making that commentary weak。 Had there been no father school counterpart, the commentary of how society treats fathers who perform even basic parenting duties as heroes while mothers who go above and beyond are still unworthy of praise, would have been clear and strong。 If all of the women being chastised had been women of color, a strong picture of how colored women are judged more harshly by society than white women could have been painted。 Instead, all of these societal pitfalls (and more) were raised but then not fully fleshed out, making any lasting reflection about a specific point of our current society’s handling of motherhood slightly muddled。 I was fully immersed in the mothers and the school and was particularly disturbed at the fact that, although the lessons sounded ridiculous and outlandish when written on paper and spoken through dialogue, I agreed with most of the evil teachers’ diatribes。 I do believe that if you turn your head for even a second, something terrible could happen to your child。 I also believe that as a mother you should be able to anticipate your child’s needs before they can articulate them。 I believe that as a mother it is my job to teach my child about cooperation, empathy, social injustice, standing up for herself, and authority over her body。 As I found myself agreeing with the overarching points of each lesson, I was confused and frightened; did I believe all of these things because they were true or had I already been indoctrinated? After all, don’t I already receive half a dozen emails in my inbox a day with click bait entitled “5 Things Great Moms Do Everyday” or “How Your Tone is Affecting Your Child’s Self Esteem” or “What Pediatricians Wish You Knew About Your Child,” and more? Don’t I click on every single one of them and learn how I’m complimenting my kids the wrong way, or feeding them the wrong things, or letting them watch too much screen time, or how if I don’t have the right books or toys my kids will turn into narcissist, intolerant, jerks who will ruin society? Do I not go to bed many nights reliving my maternal mistakes and promising that tomorrow I will do better? Have we not already arrived to this dystopia where pressure on mothers is exponential, outside “expertise” abundant yet conflicting, women constantly try to “out mother” the next (hello, Pinterest), maternal guilt is extreme, and motherhood burnout is real but not addressed? The more I read and processed, the more I realized the only thing dystopian about this novel is the actual school setting。 In real life, the “school” is the constant bombardment of criticism from social media, other mothers, strangers at the grocery store, and ourselves。 Scary because it’s true。 I’ll be processing this one for quite a while。 Definitely a worthwhile read and it would make a great book club book as there is so much to unpack。 Thank you to NetGalley and Simon & Schuster for the ARC in exchange for an honest review。 。。。more

Jennifer Mullins

The Handmaids Tale meets 1984 in this dystopian world where bad mothers go to school to learn to become good mothers。 This book is well written and painted an eerily realistic picture of the pressures to be a good mother。 The hypocrisy and double-standard, as well ad the criticism, the mothers endured left me feeling frustrated but also seen。 It also highlighted the additional struggled mothers of color have to endure。 This book left me feeling frustrated, angry, and sad all at the same time。 Hi The Handmaids Tale meets 1984 in this dystopian world where bad mothers go to school to learn to become good mothers。 This book is well written and painted an eerily realistic picture of the pressures to be a good mother。 The hypocrisy and double-standard, as well ad the criticism, the mothers endured left me feeling frustrated but also seen。 It also highlighted the additional struggled mothers of color have to endure。 This book left me feeling frustrated, angry, and sad all at the same time。 Highly recommend for all the parents out there struggling to be “good” parents!Thank you NetGalley and Simon & Schuster Publishing for an advanced copy! 。。。more

Barbara

It's difficult for me to write down my thoughts on this book。 It's well written, the story is both frightening and fascinating。 a creepy tale of what could happen to women in our society。 It will be fabulous read for a book group and would lead to a great discussion。 But the lead character, Frida, does something really bad in the beginning of the book。 She leaves her toddler who's sick and crying alone for hours。。。not 10 minutes, not to run to the corner quickly。 She gets in her car, drives to w It's difficult for me to write down my thoughts on this book。 It's well written, the story is both frightening and fascinating。 a creepy tale of what could happen to women in our society。 It will be fabulous read for a book group and would lead to a great discussion。 But the lead character, Frida, does something really bad in the beginning of the book。 She leaves her toddler who's sick and crying alone for hours。。。not 10 minutes, not to run to the corner quickly。 She gets in her car, drives to work, and stays there for hours。 After a neighbor calls the police, she's sent to an experimental home for bad mothers, where women are sent to be taught to be good。 There's a lot of important social commentary, a lot of what happens to the women in the home is horrible。 The story will give your all the feels。 Frida clearly has mental illness and many of the characters could have done more to help her, but her original choice is so bad。 Still, it's worth a read, or you could just wait for the Netflix series。 。。。more

Aoife McMenamin

TSFGM is the debut novel by Jessamine Chan。 It’s dystopian fiction (borderline horror tbqh), inspired I imagine by Atwood’s The Handmaid’s Tale and Ishiguro’s Never Let Me Go (not a patch on either I’m afraid)。 Frida is a mother of one to infant daughter Harriet, and is under strain。 Her husband has left her for another woman, she’s sleep deprived, probably suffering from PND, overworked and overwhelmed。 Unable to cope one day, she leaves her daughter alone at home for two hours and pays a hefty TSFGM is the debut novel by Jessamine Chan。 It’s dystopian fiction (borderline horror tbqh), inspired I imagine by Atwood’s The Handmaid’s Tale and Ishiguro’s Never Let Me Go (not a patch on either I’m afraid)。 Frida is a mother of one to infant daughter Harriet, and is under strain。 Her husband has left her for another woman, she’s sleep deprived, probably suffering from PND, overworked and overwhelmed。 Unable to cope one day, she leaves her daughter alone at home for two hours and pays a hefty price。 She’s sent to a government reform school for mothers for a year where she must learn what it takes to become a loving, devoted mother。 Fascinating premise, all the elements of a great story are there, and there are interesting themes briefly explored - privilege, motherhood, impossible standards of perfection, artificial intelligence - but the book falls flat in its execution。 Billed as a pageturner, the story moves at a snail’s pace。 I felt like I was reading it for a year。 The book is written in unembellished prose, it’s very factual and flat in tone。 It really needs an injection of flair and of pace to alleviate the tedium at times and generate some tension。 It’s also anxiety-inducing and VERY distressing。 There were times as a parent when I could hardly read what was happening; it was unbearably sad。 It’s not a book I will forget (it may haunt me), but I couldn’t recommend it。 2。5/5 ⭐️ **TSFGM will be published on 3 March 2022 by @randomhouseuk @hutchheinemann。 Many thanks to @netgalley for a proof copy of the book in exchange for an honest (very honest 😬) review。** 。。。more

Sara Klem

I think the premise of this book was really smart but the execution fell flat for me。 To be honest, it was an absolute slog to read。 The first few chapters sucked me in, but then it became repetitive, claustrophobic, and relentlessly miserable without any reprieve。 I understand that was probably at least partially intentional, but I really think at least a third of this book could have been edited out。 Also, it tries to tackle a LOT of different themes relating to motherhood and also more genera I think the premise of this book was really smart but the execution fell flat for me。 To be honest, it was an absolute slog to read。 The first few chapters sucked me in, but then it became repetitive, claustrophobic, and relentlessly miserable without any reprieve。 I understand that was probably at least partially intentional, but I really think at least a third of this book could have been edited out。 Also, it tries to tackle a LOT of different themes relating to motherhood and also more general social issues, which ultimately made it feel unfocused and even harder to stay interested。 。。。more

Maria Guido

Frida Liu is a mom who is struggling; her husband fell in love with a younger woman while she was pregnant and has left her, she feels like a constant disappointment to her Chinese immigrant parents, and motherhood is hard。 She makes a terrible decision one day that lands her in trouble with CPS。 In the world Chan's created, CPS has evolved into an institution that attempts to "reform" bad parents in the most dystopian way possible -- and Frida needs to pass a series of tests in order to retain Frida Liu is a mom who is struggling; her husband fell in love with a younger woman while she was pregnant and has left her, she feels like a constant disappointment to her Chinese immigrant parents, and motherhood is hard。 She makes a terrible decision one day that lands her in trouble with CPS。 In the world Chan's created, CPS has evolved into an institution that attempts to "reform" bad parents in the most dystopian way possible -- and Frida needs to pass a series of tests in order to retain custody of her daughter, Harriet。This book will frustrate you and make you question your own unconscious judgments about what it means to be a good mother。 。。。more

Lindsey

What a great book! A very different concept from any book I've read before。 Would definitely recommend! What a great book! A very different concept from any book I've read before。 Would definitely recommend! 。。。more

Jordan (Jordy’s Book Club)

QUICK TAKE: as a new parent, this book was ROUGH。 A woman is sentenced to a 1-year prison reform program for "bad" mothers, where they are forced to go through various parenting classes in order to win back custody of their kids。 It reminded me a lot of Joanne Ramos's book THE FARM, but is so sad and traumatic and anxiety-inducing that I struggled to finish。 The book is also told in a very clinical way, and I'm not sure if that's on purpose。 I'm going to read some additional reviews for some add QUICK TAKE: as a new parent, this book was ROUGH。 A woman is sentenced to a 1-year prison reform program for "bad" mothers, where they are forced to go through various parenting classes in order to win back custody of their kids。 It reminded me a lot of Joanne Ramos's book THE FARM, but is so sad and traumatic and anxiety-inducing that I struggled to finish。 The book is also told in a very clinical way, and I'm not sure if that's on purpose。 I'm going to read some additional reviews for some added context, and while I definitely didn't enjoy reading TSFGM, it is definitely a book that will resonate with me for some time。 。。。more

Carrie Cappiello

Her husband has left her for a younger woman, she hates her mindless job, so Frida has “a very bad day” and is punished for leaving her toddler home alone for a few hours。 She’s sent to an institution where she’s to be taught how to properly nurture and care for her daughter。 THOUGHTS:This book started with so much potential。 How many moms have wondered what would happen if they just walked away for a little bit? Unfortunately for Frida, the answer is big brother government gets involved & ships Her husband has left her for a younger woman, she hates her mindless job, so Frida has “a very bad day” and is punished for leaving her toddler home alone for a few hours。 She’s sent to an institution where she’s to be taught how to properly nurture and care for her daughter。 THOUGHTS:This book started with so much potential。 How many moms have wondered what would happen if they just walked away for a little bit? Unfortunately for Frida, the answer is big brother government gets involved & ships her out to a parenting training facility。 What takes place there and the concepts taught are miserable。 While I was certainly creeped out by what (I assume was supposed to be) intentionally thought provoking concepts, I was also bored。 The repetitive nature of the story and lack of connection to any characters made this a miss 。。。more

Diana (Reading While Mommying) Dean

I like a dystopian novel just as much as the next person, but this one lacked something。。。or maybe it just upset me so much, I couldn't personally appreciate it?Frida's challenges as a mother and the horrific experience she had losing her daughter and then being sent to the school for good mothers is realistic in the sense that she experiences the same challenges, doubts, and emotional/physical exhaustion most mothers experience。 Yet, the drastic legal consequences she faces from a exaggerated ( I like a dystopian novel just as much as the next person, but this one lacked something。。。or maybe it just upset me so much, I couldn't personally appreciate it?Frida's challenges as a mother and the horrific experience she had losing her daughter and then being sent to the school for good mothers is realistic in the sense that she experiences the same challenges, doubts, and emotional/physical exhaustion most mothers experience。 Yet, the drastic legal consequences she faces from a exaggerated (yet, still rooted in reality) child welfare entity--paired with the horrific way she's treated by her ex-husband--seem over-the-top without the usual "fight the man" thread running through them that most dystopian stories have。 Frida's last-ditch "fight" seemed too convenient and not organic to the consistently weak and submissive woman we see throughout the book。 Was she suffering from postpartum issues? Was she this submissive in her marriage before having kids? No of this is ever really answered。I also felt that the plot plodded along at parts。 Frida's "treatment" in the facility got repetitive。 The constant allusions to the women getting treated much worse than the men just made me angrier and angrier。 I kept hoping someone, anyone, would fight back。 The highlight of this book is the commentary on motherhood and marriage that many women face。 Chan adds new depth to the discussion with allusions to the racism Asian women and mothers also experience。 I loved this inclusion in the book, but was disappointed with the way it was explored。 By making the situations and the treatment of Frida so exaggerated, it lessened the impact of the discussion of these true-to-real-life issues。For a very sensitive person like myself, this just wasn't the book for me。 I really wish Frida had a bit more fight in her and that the situations she faced weren't so horrifying。 Oh and Gust REALLY needed to get a comeuppance in some way, shape, or form。 If you enjoy really bleak dystopian stories, this is a book for you。 It just wasn't the book for me。Thanks to @NetGalley for a free ebook in exchange for an honest review。 。。。more

Sulagna Hati

Possible 3。5* I didn’t ask for my first book of the year to hurt me like this

Bethany Neal

One very bad day。 To be a mother is to always fear that you could do something wrong, not protect your child like you should。 Frida had one very bad day, overwhelmed & preoccupied。 The School for Good Mothers terrified me。 But in a way that felt the possibility of such an overbearing government, a harshness & judgmental view of mothers & their role in society。 The women of the school all had their own stories & I loved learning about all of them, seeing sisterhoods form。 I laughed & I cried (but One very bad day。 To be a mother is to always fear that you could do something wrong, not protect your child like you should。 Frida had one very bad day, overwhelmed & preoccupied。 The School for Good Mothers terrified me。 But in a way that felt the possibility of such an overbearing government, a harshness & judgmental view of mothers & their role in society。 The women of the school all had their own stories & I loved learning about all of them, seeing sisterhoods form。 I laughed & I cried (but not in that cliche way) & I pleaded for these women, for all women。 What an amazingly stressful story, like Jessamine Chan said it would be 😂, but also thought-provoking, passionate & humorous。 Unlike anything I have read! 。。。more

Guillermo Perez

The School For Good Mothers follows Frida, mother to Harriet, as she goes through an arduous battle with the court system after leaving her unattended for several hours。 Frida never intended to leave her house for more than a few minutes。 After going to grab a cup of coffee, a file from her work, and answering several emails, she loses track of time and only realizes she's been gone for more than two hours when the police call her and tell her that they have her daughter at the station。 Frida's The School For Good Mothers follows Frida, mother to Harriet, as she goes through an arduous battle with the court system after leaving her unattended for several hours。 Frida never intended to leave her house for more than a few minutes。 After going to grab a cup of coffee, a file from her work, and answering several emails, she loses track of time and only realizes she's been gone for more than two hours when the police call her and tell her that they have her daughter at the station。 Frida's once-perfect life with her husband is now shattered。 He's decided to leave her for a new, younger woman with whom he moves in all too quickly。 It's not only her child that is driving her to the edge of madness。 After acknowledging her part in the ordeal, the courts' decision is simple: attend a school where she'll learn to finally be a good parent OR lose her parental rights until Harriet turns 18。 Frida decides to go to the school where she is put through the wringer to prove she can be an excellent mother。 What follows is a bizarre dive into a world of simulacra and simulation with the highest stakes of them all; either pass all the tests administered to the mothers or lose their rights forever。 This book had a huge Handmaid's tales vibes to me。 It felt dystopian, futuristic, and at the same time something that could be happening this very instant。 I enjoyed the vast array of characters once Frida arrived at the school for good mothers and the friendships she made along with her year stay in that setting。 Some of the scenarios felt tough to connect with, and though they were learning new skillsets with each test, it bordered on repetition。 Reading about a struggling mother, who doesn't have it all together, and questions why she is "selfish" for needing to still be the person she was, was delightful to read。 It felt more authentic to have a new perspective from a mother's point of view that isn't all pleasant。 。。。more

Danielle

The School for Good Mothers//Jessamine Chan-"How she felt a sudden pleasure when she shut the door and got in the car that took her away from her mind and body and house and child"-When Frida has a bad day and leaves her young daughter alone for more than two hours, she is reported to CPS。 As punishment, she is sent to a reform school where she will "learn to be a good mother" or lose her daughter for good。-This book will appall you for many reasons - but without providing spoilers, it's most cl The School for Good Mothers//Jessamine Chan-"How she felt a sudden pleasure when she shut the door and got in the car that took her away from her mind and body and house and child"-When Frida has a bad day and leaves her young daughter alone for more than two hours, she is reported to CPS。 As punishment, she is sent to a reform school where she will "learn to be a good mother" or lose her daughter for good。-This book will appall you for many reasons - but without providing spoilers, it's most clearly a commentary on the expectations society places on mothers。 While my reading experience was enjoyable I was also so sad meeting the women in this story。 At the school they are "learning to be good" - told that they are narcissists if their child does not come first at every turn - that being a human and needing self-care is putting your child in danger。-I found myself quite often thinking about the transgressions the mothers are sent to the school for。 Some of them are genuinely bad。 Some of them I can see happening if you're not well-rested or getting help from a partner。 I would love to imagine that in a tired stupor I wouldn't make a mistake but I know that's not true and motherhood is inherently imperfect, but so often it doesn't feel that is allowed in the court of public opinion。-This story is only helped by Chan's smooth, easy-to-read writing style。 I could barely put the book down, -There were some sections, especially when Chan was writing about Black or brown mothers and fathers that felt quite cringy (shoutout @moerreads)。 I think it was done to comment on Frida's ability to pass as white and her advantages, even in TSFGM - but I could see it turning some people off。 -A dark, compulsive debut, TSFGM is going to divide people - you can put me firmly in the love camp。 。。。more

Tina long

My Review: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️/ 5 stars A debut novel by Jessamine Chan - This is a cross between Handmaid's Tale and Orange is the New Black。 New mom Frida Liu is sent to a camp for a whole year after she left her baby home alone for 2 hours - a new concept from Child Protective Services to prevent “poor parents” from making careless mistakes。 They are treated like prisoners, have to keep their child “dolls” alive, and constantly tested/observed to make sure they are not distracted from their duties as a My Review: ⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️/ 5 stars A debut novel by Jessamine Chan - This is a cross between Handmaid's Tale and Orange is the New Black。 New mom Frida Liu is sent to a camp for a whole year after she left her baby home alone for 2 hours - a new concept from Child Protective Services to prevent “poor parents” from making careless mistakes。 They are treated like prisoners, have to keep their child “dolls” alive, and constantly tested/observed to make sure they are not distracted from their duties as a parent, ever。 Other parent’s mistakes include one that coddled too much, a child fell out of a tree on their watch, or being late to pick them up from school。 This is a dark, dystopian , slightly exaggerated world in which “perfect” moms look down on other struggling moms, where they are not allowed to make the tiniest mistakes now that they have a child - because it only matters that they are a mother。 Also, the fact that these mothers were forced from their babies for a whole year for the betterment of their kids safety (for non-violent offenses) was maddening to read。 If you liked The Handmaid's tale, you would probably love this。 It’s thought provoking, eerie, and yet only slightly dissimilar to the society we live here in the western world where parents are judged and put down constantly。 After reading this, it opened my eyes much more about even criticizing how someone raises their child (unless it’s hurting them of course!)。 A solid first read for 2022!Thank you to Simon & Schuster for the advanced copy in exchange for my honest review! 。。。more

Amy Navarre

Thank you Simon & Schuster and the Book Club Favorites Friends program for this free ARC!First, although I am honored to have been chosen to preview this novel, I wish I had read this with a book club or at the very least along side my bookish friends。 This book definitely has the potential to spark lively discussion from the first page to the last。This piece of speculative fiction is both heart wrenching and terrifying。 The writing is phenomenal。 Character development is really strong: there ar Thank you Simon & Schuster and the Book Club Favorites Friends program for this free ARC!First, although I am honored to have been chosen to preview this novel, I wish I had read this with a book club or at the very least along side my bookish friends。 This book definitely has the potential to spark lively discussion from the first page to the last。This piece of speculative fiction is both heart wrenching and terrifying。 The writing is phenomenal。 Character development is really strong: there are characters you want to love, characters you love to hate, characters you don’t fully trust, characters you root for, and characters that disappoint。 I feel the author has given us readers the best possible ending。 If you were in that situation with those circumstances, could you say you would do differently?I highly recommend this for fans of The Stepford Wives, The Handmaid’s Tale, and Vox。 Also, I fully expect a movie or a series based on this book (personally I’m hoping Netflix picks this up as a series。) 。。。more

Kelsi Jimmerson

This book just made me feel icky。

Debra

Frida has been placed in a one-year, government program to 'help' abusive/negligent mothers before potentially reuniting with their children。 Unfortunately, because this is dystopian, the program more likely causes mothers to barely hang on to their sanity。I did not like this book。 Ugh, I said it。 The School for Good Mothers was needlessly drawn out and too far-fetched, even for its dystopian genre。 Why would the program be run by women who didn't have kids? What would lead up to the creation of Frida has been placed in a one-year, government program to 'help' abusive/negligent mothers before potentially reuniting with their children。 Unfortunately, because this is dystopian, the program more likely causes mothers to barely hang on to their sanity。I did not like this book。 Ugh, I said it。 The School for Good Mothers was needlessly drawn out and too far-fetched, even for its dystopian genre。 Why would the program be run by women who didn't have kids? What would lead up to the creation of this program when the rest of society outside the program is written as being normal?Frida gets put into the program because she has left her 18-month old daughter alone for over two hours。 We are supposed to sympathize with Frida's poor choice, for her "bad day"。。。 but nope, I will sit atop my judgy pedestal here to say: that is not okay。The author, Jessamine Chan, makes a lot of social commentary on all the things happening in this society: unfair treatment/expectations of women, racial issues, class issues。。。 and it's too much。 I think a bit more focus in one area would have highlighted issues better in the book。Not my personal favorite, but there is a lot here to discuss- I see it as being a hit in a book group。Thank you Netgalley and Simon and Schuster for an e-ARC copy of this book。 "The School for Good Mothers" will be published on January 4th, 2022。 。。。more